Based on his experiences as a grief and crisis counselor, John A. Pridonoff was convinced that people with terminal illnesses should have the right to end their own lives.
"I have been faced too many times with instances of people dying, stripped of their dignity, integrity and sense of self-respect. It's not that I feel terminally ill people should do this but that terminally ill should be able to discuss this without the intrusion of organized religion or organized government beyond the appropriate safety structures within the law," he once told the Los Angeles Times.
Pridonoff earned a bachelor's degree in psychology from California State University, Los Angeles, and received a doctorate in thanatology and a master's in theology from the Colgate Rochester Divinity School in New York. After he was ordained as a minister in the Congregationalist Christian Church, he became a volunteer counselor and chaplain at Grossmont Hospital in San Diego.
For a quarter of a century, Pridonoff worked as the executive director of The Counseling Center in San Diego, a nonprofit organization that provides trauma, grief and crisis counseling to medical professionals. He also edited The Forum, the Association for Death Education and Counseling's quarterly newsletter.
Then in 1992, Pridonoff was selected to be the new executive director of the Hemlock Society, an organization that lobbies for right-to-die laws for the terminally ill. During his three-year tenure, he pushed for a constitutional amendment permitting "death with dignity," and fought for the passage of Oregon's assisted suicide law. Oregon is the only state in America that allows physician-assisted suicide.
Pridonoff died on Nov. 24 from heart failure. He was 62.
[Update - Aug. 17, 2008 - Age has been corrected.]
Posted on January 3, 2004 11:01 PMI worked for John Pridonoff for 3 years at the Hemlock Society in Eugene, OR.
I just stumbled upon this obituary today by sheer coincidence, after uttering the phrase "now is the time", which was one of Mr. Pridonoff's chosen themes for a past Hemlock Society conference, and then spontaneously googling his name to see what came back. This obituary was the first entry.
I am sad to hear of John's passing. I hadn't seen or spoken to him since I left Eugene in 1995, but he was a good man with a big heart and nothing but the best intentions. Thank you for posting notice of his life and passing.
Scott Judd
Chicago, IL
Sitting on the couch with my family made me worried.When my dad said he was gone I felt that I fell apart.I had 3 uncles.One very athletic,one very nice and caring, but uncle John was different.He was a little of everything.He will always be remembered as well as his still living dog Mr. Bart , who lives with a family that took care of him.From what I know, I knew UJ(uncle John) better than everyone in my househld family exept for my dad.My dad told me that UJ would tease him all the time and tell him that they had a long lost brother named Jim.I loved his jokes, his kindness, his additude, his everything.The only thing I dont like is that he is gone.thank you.
Ben
Posted by Ben on February 25, 2007 3:55 PMI'm thrilled to see that my brother John is still remembered. He loved life and helping people. His smile, laugh and enthusiasm will always be in my thoughts, awa, his leo the Lion roar.
He would be so honored that his nephew Ben has such a deep love for him; because he loved Ben so much and his only wish was that he would always be remembered....
John truly took a part of me when he died...I can't tell you when the hurt goes away, because it hasn't.....
Posted by Sally West on August 9, 2008 1:13 AMToday is August 11, 2008, 8 days after my brother John would have been 67. The bios on John are incorrect...he died at age 62, not 64. Be that as it may, I am/was John's older sister, by 18 months. We were very tight, all our lives and there for each other in the good times and the challenging times.
I don't know who put up this blog, but I am happy that it is here and wanted to thank the creator of it.
As those before me have stated, John was an amazing man. He had the ability to be there for anyone who needed him. He was a wonderful counselor, advisor, pastor, writer, and always fair minded in his assessment of situations. He left us all too soon, but I know that he is well remembered and loved by his family and friends, and that he left a powerful legacy in what he taught and what he wrote.
Loving him always and forever, and until we meet again, his sister Erica
Posted by Erica Pridonoff-Zacarias on August 11, 2008 2:57 PM